So recently I released a self-guided coaching kit on healing and it became evident how many people, women specifically, are walking around broken. It truly made me a bit sad to learn of this. What's more problematic is that those whom are broken and wounded are often looking for someone to fix them and make them whole. No ma'am! You must make the decision to become heal. And no one except God Himself can help with this.
Trying to date or entertain a man/relationship while broken is D-A-N-G-E-R-O-U-S! When unhealed and wounded, you're bound to attach yourself to the wrong person with the wrong motives. And that's me just speaking of you. But worse is being involved with a person that knows the person they're involved with is broken! Have you come across a person with a cast on their arm, leg, or finger? You know that person has something that's broken and in need of healing. It doesn't necessarily take a doctor to establish that. But did you know that others can often tell when a person is broken mentally and emotionally as well? And someone with wrong motives and thoughts may take advantage of that. There are some who pray for you and then others prey on you. What I'm saying is that you walking around unhealed, broken, and in pieces could potentially cause you to attach to and entertain someone that will possibly only leave you in even more pieces.
God is the only person to attach yourself to at this point if this is your story. He has the power to heal your brokenness, lift the weight of shame, and He can and will lead you into a brand new life... if you allow Him to. He needs your permission, believe it or not. He can't bless whom you pretend to be. He can't mend you if you don't think you're in need. When sick, you must go to a doctor, right? Same with God, only you just have to call His name.
I love that our God is close to those whom are brokenhearted and crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). I love that He can heal and help just by us calling out His name. I love that He cares about our needs and desires and illnesses.
If this is something you're in need of and need help with, start your healing process today. You deserve to be healed!